November 12, 2016 by babylondogs
I have chosen a life where I don’t argue, I don’t belittle, I don’t complain. And I make sure I surround myself with people who live likewise. I used to argue, judge others, put them down, and complain about everything. I refuse this. I have turned my back on it. The moment anyone brings up my past, complains about how I mistreated them, whines about anything, or just wants to argue, I keep them out of my life. I want people in my life who have courage, who are willing to grow as people, who don’t see themselves as victims of their circumstances but rather creators of their lives. Intolerance of negative qualities might seem like arrogance, but rather it is a declaration of freedom, a declaration of what I will allow or not allow in my life. If a person wants in my life, they need to wrestle with their demons and take control of them. They must live intentionally, by disciplined choice, not unintentionally, living an undisciplined existence of being knocked around. Get in the wheelhouse of your life and navigate it to your goals. Don’t have goals? Start with the abcs: no arguing, belittling, complaining.